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We live in a cacophonous world, surrounded by sounds, notifications, and inner dialogues that can often be deafening. 

Remember the ‘quiet game’ from those long childhood road trips? 

That was more than just a game—it was a lesson. 

In this era, where silence seems to be an endangered resource, it’s time we relearned its importance and the ways to attain it. Here’s how.

The Overlooked Value of Quiet Time

Growing up, many of us played the quiet game, especially on road trips, where the aim was to stay silent the longest. 

Little did we know that as adults, we’d yearn for these quiet moments. 

However, even when we consciously seek silence, our minds tend to overflow with thoughts, making true tranquility elusive.

I’ve always believed in self-growth , and one of the challenges I’ve undertaken is mastering the art of silencing my inner chatter. Here are three methods I’ve adopted to achieve it:

Meditation: A Journey Within

Meditation, contrary to many beliefs, doesn’t always mean seeking enlightenment. 

It’s about finding a focal point—be it a thought, a sensation, or just your breath. 

For me, it’s about channeling my thoughts on a singular point, pushing the clutter aside. This clarity paves the way for creativity, better decision-making , and a broader perspective on life’s challenges.

Physical Activity: Movement as Meditation

Physical activities—be it running, kayaking, or even a brisk walk in the park—can act as a catalyst for quieting the mind. 

Engaging your body diverts your mind from its usual rumination, helping you focus on the task at hand. 

My happy place

Kayaking and hiking. There’s something about being out in nature that sparks my creativity.

Quality Alone Time: Embracing Solitude

The era of social media has turned us into interaction addicts, often at the cost of spending quality time with ourselves. 

But being alone isn’t about being lonely. It’s about confronting and reflecting on our thoughts. As children, we feared imaginary monsters; as adults, we dread our inner demons. 

It’s high time we befriended them. Solitude, if used wisely, can lead to profound self-discoveries and decisions.

In our hustle and bustle, we often forget the power of silence. But like the quiet game from our childhood, it’s something we should embrace more often. 

Whether it’s through meditation, physical activity, or simply being with oneself, finding your slice of quiet in this noisy world can be the difference between feeling overwhelmed and attaining clarity. 

So, the next time the world gets too loud, remember: she handles it, and you can too.

By CJ Stasik July 22, 2025
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